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		<title>The Status of International Adoptions from Russia</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[For Americans looking to adopt internationally, Russia has long been had a stable adoption program. Russia has typically been the third most popular sending country for international adoptions in the United States. Russian children who are given up for adoption typically are so because the poverty level in the country is such that raising a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For Americans looking to adopt internationally, Russia has long been had a stable adoption program. Russia has typically been the third most popular sending country for international adoptions in the United States. Russian children who are given up for adoption typically are so because the poverty level in the country is such that raising a child would be difficult or impossible for the lower class parents. The result is that a large number of Russian children are made available for foreign adoption.</p>
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<p>Recently, however, attempts at reform within the Russian adoption system have led to major delays in the adoption process. A recently passed Russian law requires adoption agencies to be re-accredited. The process of applying for and being granting accreditation and licensing has proven to be a slow one, resulting in the delays that are currently being seen.</p>
<p>Applications for accreditation must be reviewed by five Russian government ministries: Ministry of Education, Ministry of Health, Ministry of Justice and Ministry of Foreign Affairs. One of these ministries sometimes requires clarification or additional information on certain applications, which leads to further delay. The website for the United States Embassy in Moscow cites one example in which the Ministry of Justice recently returned several applications to the agencies, asking for further information1. The Ministry of Education can only sign off on the accreditation after receiving approval from each of the four other ministries. At the time of this writing (May 30, 2007) the Ministry of Education had not announced a date by which the review will be complete, and no adoption agencies had yet been accredited by the ministry.</p>
<p>These postponements in the adoption process have had some other consequences, as well. For example, prospective adoptive parents are having trouble traveling to Russia for their adoption visits. Russian adoptions require two such visits, the first being about a week and the second lasting two to three weeks. The Russian government issues visas to adopting parents for these visits, with specific parameters indicating the dates of the visit. However, because all adoptions are falling behind schedule, Americans are attempting to travel to Russia outside the dates specified on their visas. This can be especially problematic if they are able to travel to Russia, but wind up staying beyond the departure date of the visa. Significant delays in departing Russia can occur.</p>
<p>For the moment, adoptions in Russia are still mired in the bureaucratic accreditation process. The Russian government and the Ministry of Education are unable to say when the review might be over and adoptions will be back up to speed. For those wishing to adopt a Russian child, it is still possible to do so, but one should be prepared to weather a significant waiting period. If enduring the process is not feasible, there are plenty of other countries with available children to consider. Some other viable options include China, South Korea, Guatemala, and many countries in Africa. News and updates on the Russian adoption process are available from the U.S. Embassy in Moscow website:</p>
<p><a href="http://moscow.usembassy.gov/consular/consular.php?record_id=adoptions" target="_blank">http://moscow.usembassy.gov/consular/consular.php?record_id=adoptions</a></p>
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		<title>Children for Adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 21:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A frequent question among those people looking to become adoptive parents is that of what the children are like. This is understandable, of course. After all, before welcoming a child into one&#8217;s home, it is useful to know what options are available and what one can expect of the child. Since all children are different, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A frequent question among those people looking to become adoptive parents is that of what the children are like. This is understandable, of course. After all, before welcoming a child into one&#8217;s home, it is useful to know what options are available and what one can expect of the child. Since all children are different, there is no single or precise way to answer this question. By examining the various kinds of children who are generally adopted, it is possible to paint something of a general picture.</p>
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<p>One option is to adopt an infant born within the U.S. The infants placed for public adoption are generally African-American, Hispanic or mixed-race. The number of Caucasian infants placed for public adoption is relatively small in comparison, as these children are generally handled by private adoption agencies. Adopting an infant is preferable for those people who wish to raise their adopted child from a very early age, possibly to simulate the experience of raising a birth child. Because this is such a widely sought option, it can often be difficult to find a readily available child, often resulting in long waiting periods before being able to adopt.</p>
<p>A second domestic option is to adopt a child who is already in foster care and waiting for a family. These children tend to be older, from grade school age up to adolescence. They may have special needs, such as emotional, mental, or physical disability, or they may be part of a sibling group that must be placed together. Often called &#8216;waiting children,&#8217; these special cases are handled by both public and private adoption agencies, with entities called adoption exchanges helping to provide matches between child and parent. Often, adoption subsidies are available to help offset the cost of caring for a child with special needs.</p>
<p>A third option is to adopt internationally. Children are available for adoption in over fifty foreign countries. These children have been put for adoption for a variety of reasons, often linked to the nation or culture in which their parents live. In South Korea, for example, unwed mothers are looked upon shamefully, so would-be single moms often put their infant up for adoption. Often these children are living in orphanages, just waiting for someone to adopt them. The process of adopting from abroad can be a tedious one, but there are agencies and attorneys that will facilitate the process.</p>
<p>No matter which option is right for a certain individual, one theme remains the same: there are children who need to be adopted. From infancy to adolescence, both at home and overseas, there are children who are without families. For prospective birth parents who do not have the means to raise a child, and for people looking to start a family, adoption is a solution to be considered. If you or someone you know is thinking of adopting and would like some more information, some good online resources include <a href="http://Adoption.com" title="http://Adoption.com" target="_blank">Adoption.com</a> and <a href="http://Adopting.org" title="http://Adopting.org" target="_blank">Adopting.org</a>, both of which are aimed at providing information on adoption to pertinent parties. <a href="http://AdoptableKids.com" title="http://AdoptableKids.com" target="_blank">AdoptableKids.com</a> is an online adoption exchange where one can search and browse photo listings of hundreds of kids currently waiting to be adopted.</p>
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		<title>Free Dog Adoptions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2008 17:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The orphaned pet population on a world wide scale continues to increase at a rapid speed and is becoming an epidemic.  The need for loving homes is larger than ever.  The reason for this problem is owners who fail to spay or neuter their pets.  Some organizations are even offering veterinarian reimbursement [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The orphaned pet population on a world wide scale continues to increase at a rapid speed and is becoming an epidemic.  The need for loving homes is larger than ever.  The reason for this problem is owners who fail to spay or neuter their pets.  Some organizations are even offering veterinarian reimbursement to owners who have their pets fixed.</p>
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<p>There are some places that offer free dog adoption clinics, which excite people to come in and meet some of the dogs in need of a home.  If you find a dog you wish to adopt at one of these clinics you must first fill out an application.  The cost of spay or neutering and the dogs vaccinations may be required and generally are less than $200.00.  Considering what a new dog generally cost, it&#8217;s truly a small price to pay.  Some store offer savings or a reward plan when adoption papers are shown.  This is their way of showing their support and thanking you for helping a homeless pet.</p>
<p>Although these are called free dog adoptions, there are more fees to consider other than the retail price of the dog.  One should remember that a new dog will need shots and vet care.  The dog will also require leashes, collars, food, and possibly dog training classes.  If you are sure that you can spend the time and money on a dog then you should check with your local animal shelters for your free dog adoption.  Most pet shelters do not charge for the pet, but rather charge a fee for the veterinarian care.  You can also look for free dog adoptions in the classified section of your local news paper.</p>
<p>When choosing a dog for a free adoption you should look to see how the dog is being treated.  Make sure the kennel is clean, that there is food and water.  Dogs that are mistreated or neglected can have behavioral problems.  Do some research and decide which kind of dog you would like to adopt.  Do not do a free adoption because you are unable to buy a dog.  Do a free dog adoption because you want to welcome a homeless dog into your home and your heart.</p>
<p>Basically what needs to happen is you need to research for what kind of dog you might want to adopt, look at the temperament and personality characteristics.  Then you need to contact your local shelter and or rescue group and ask them about free dog adoptions and if they offer it.  You will also want to ask them how much veterinarian fees usually run.  Then you need to go and start looking for the right dog for you.  Now remember that this may take more than one trip.  Once you have found the right dog it will be time to start the application process.  You may also be required to do a home study so to speak.  This is where someone form the shelter comes to your home and makes sure that your yard and home are adequate for a dog.  Once the application process is finished you will be required to pay the veterinarian fees and then you can take you new dog home.</p>
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		<title>Adoption Records</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 00:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Requirements for gathering information for adoption records are different in each state.  Information about the child being adopted or the family putting the child up for adoption in put together by the adoption agency or the local Division of Social Services.  A home study is done to gatherer information about the family [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Requirements for gathering information for adoption records are different in each state.  Information about the child being adopted or the family putting the child up for adoption in put together by the adoption agency or the local Division of Social Services.  A home study is done to gatherer information about the family and the parents of the child being put up for adoption.</p>
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<p>Information collected on the child being adopted for the adoption records are basically the same in most states, it includes: medical and genetic history, a family and social background, mental health history, religious background, ethnic and racial background, and education level attained.  There are some states that require more information such as dental history, immunization records, developmental history, and of course school records.  Some adoption Records also hold information on whether or not the child being put up for adoption is eligible for any state of federal adoption assistance.  Those states include: Michigan, Missouri, Nevada, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, Texas, and Vermont.</p>
<p>The adoption records also include information on the birth parents and the birth family of the child being put up for adoption.  This information is gathered during a home study as well and it includes information such as the medical and genetic history of the family, the family and social background, a mental health history of the family, a religious background, and the level of education attained by the parents.  Some states require also the physical appearance, talents, hobbies, field of occupation, and a list of any drugs the birth mother toke during her pregnancy with the child.  There are a few states that if obtainable, will also provide the adoptive parents with the names, addresses and any other identifying information about the birth family.  These states are Colorado, New York, and American Samoa.</p>
<p>You should of course also find information on the adoptive family in the adoption records.  Once a family has been chosen for a child they do a check on the family to make sure that the home will be suitable for the child being adopted.  The information that they collect is relatively simple.  When they do the home study for the adoptive family they include such things as a criminal background check, and they also check with the local child abuse registry.  They will also include the adoptive parents&#8217; physical health, emotional maturity, financial situation, and a family and social background.</p>
<p>Montana seems to be the hardest state to adopt from, they ask for Employment history, history of drug and alcohol abuse, racial ethnic background, and a history of domestic violence.  Montana isn&#8217;t the only state that asks for these, they are the only one that asks for all of them.  Michigan, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Dakota, West Virginia, Puerto Rico, Pennsylvania, Vermont, Colorado, Illinois, Arizona, and the District of Columbia also ask for some of these items for the adoption records.</p>
<p>When the paper work for the adoption records is final and the judge has signed it, depending on what form of adoption they have done the adoption record is sealed and completely confidential, or is left open for all to see.  If the adoption record is sealed it generally stays that way until the adopted child comes of age.</p>
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		<title>Russian Adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2007 19:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children in Russia for adoption range in age from six months to six years and up.  Almost all the children in Russia up for adoption are behind in growth and development due to being institutionalized.  Once these children are in a family environment they bounce back.  There are a variety of ethnicities [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Children in Russia for adoption range in age from six months to six years and up.  Almost all the children in Russia up for adoption are behind in growth and development due to being institutionalized.  Once these children are in a family environment they bounce back.  There are a variety of ethnicities such as Asian, Gypsy, Mediterranean, and Caucasian.  Children of both sexes are available, but there are more boys than girls.  Russian children will remain on the adoption list for six months before being considered for international adoption.  This way they have a chance to be adopted by a Russian family.  Many of the children in Russian orphanages come from teenage pregnancies, although a few are truly orphans.  A handful of them are there because the families couldn&#8217;t afford to care for them.</p>
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<p>The Russian adoption program has remained stable, and is second to the top country that Americans choose to adopt from.  Americans adopted around 4,639 Russian children in 2005.  The Russian Government began a review in 2005 of international adoption procedures, and changes are expected.  Fees range from agency to agency but are usually somewhere around $19,900 to $25,500.  This does not include travel, immigration filing, visa, document preparation or collection.</p>
<p>In order to start a Russian adoption you should choose an agency that deals with Russian adoptions or international adoptions.  You should research the different agencies and request information packets from the ones that you might be interested in.  In Russia only married couples or single women can adopt.  They believe the woman to be the main caregiver.  Once you have chosen an agency, you can begin you journey for a Russian adoption.  The entire Russian adopting process usually takes about nine months.  You start by doing a home study.  The home study is basically a report on what the social worker has found out about the adoptive parents.  Once you have finished the home study you will have to complete the Dossier.  This is paper work that the Russian Government requires.</p>
<p>Before having your paper work for your dossier notarized, ask when the notary&#8217;s commission expires.  Most countries require that the notary&#8217;s commission be valid for at least a year past the date they witness a signature.  When the paper work has been gathered and notarized, your agency will send it to Russia to be translated and notarized, and then they will give the paper work to the Russian authorities.</p>
<p>When a child is ready for adoption your agency will give you notice that there is a referral waiting for you.  They used to just send you a picture and travel information, but in April of 2000, Russia changed the regulations to include that the adopting parents must receive their referrals personally, before the Russian Ministry on Education.  When you receive your referral it should include a video tape of the child and any medical information on the child.  If for some reason you are not happy with the referral, then your agency should work with you until you are happy.  Once you are satisfied with your referral your agency will contact the Russian authorities to prepare the documents for the child being adopted.  When the paper work is finished your agency should then contact you and let you know of your departure date and any travel information that you may need to know.  Once you agree to a referral, families will take two trips to Russia.  Most adoptive children are ready within six months of finding a family.  Trip one is usually five to seven days.  Usually one month after agreeing to the referral.</p>
<p>Families generally wait two to four months between the first and second trip.  The second trip is usually about ten days.  The adopted child will be able to go home ten days after the court hearing.  In Russia if you get along well with your facilitator it will make it easier in the long run if you ever decide to adopt from Russia again.</p>
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		<title>Petz 5 Adoptions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 23:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Petz 5 adoptions are the newest alternative to owning a pet.  A Petz 5 adoption gives you a little bundle of cyber joy.  It is a program that you can download on to your computer that allows you to raise cyber pets.  These cyber pets require the same things as a real [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Petz 5 adoptions are the newest alternative to owning a pet.  A Petz 5 adoption gives you a little bundle of cyber joy.  It is a program that you can download on to your computer that allows you to raise cyber pets.  These cyber pets require the same things as a real pet. You have to feed them by selecting the kind of food that they should have, there are healthy things that you can give them and then there are treats. You have to train them and give them affection all through your computer interface. There are several sites that offer petz 5 adoptions you can adopt almost anything that you can think of, from dogs to cats, rabbits and even birds. They are adopted as kittinz or puppyz then through the proper care and attention they grow to maturity and can have litters and families of there own.</p>
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<p>If you neglect a petz then if simply runs away. Most sites give you a petz owner rating to tell you what kind of pet owner you are. There are many good reasons to adopt a petz instead of a pet. Some of those reasons include limited space, at the office too much, parents won&#8217;t let you have a pet until you prove yourself, and there is also the expense factor. Once you buy the program, most cost a small fee some are even free, there is no additional cost such as food, training ect. ect.</p>
<p>Some of 5the other benefits include you are not stuck with just one kind of pet.  You can go out and get all manner of petz once you have the platform for it. They are heart warming little things to have on your desktop. Some play with them like a game while still others use them as an alternative to actually owning a pet.</p>
<p>Though it is primarily a game and software that is mostly free, you still must be at least 13 years of age to adopt a petz and agree to the license agreement. Once you start having litterz you can place your petz up for adoption. Some come with names some just have numbers. Word to the wise do not get too many going at one time or you will never be able to keep up to all of them. The feeding and training and loving can get to be a little much if you have too many petz at one time. If they get to where they feel neglected remember they will run away and your ratting will go down.</p>
<p>This is a fun game and is defiantly a place to start for young people that want to adopt a pet, for older people that can&#8217;t have pets or for people that have pets and just love there computer. The programs are user friendly easy to install and use, and most importantly Fun.</p>
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		<title>Types of Domestic Adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2007 15:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[With Hollywood adoptions being all the rage, exemplified by mega-couple Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, adoption has been pushed to the forefront of the collective American consciousness. People generally understand what adoption is, but there remain some obscure details about adoption that go unknown. For instance, are there different kinds of adoption? What is the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With Hollywood adoptions being all the rage, exemplified by mega-couple Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, adoption has been pushed to the forefront of the collective American consciousness. People generally understand what adoption is, but there remain some obscure details about adoption that go unknown. For instance, are there different kinds of adoption? What is the adoption process like? What&#8217;s the difference between adoptive children and foster children?</p>
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<p>These are all important questions, each of which this article will touch on briefly. First of all, there are two major types of adoption: domestic and international. This article will focus on the various kinds of domestic adoption in the United States. The most important thing to keep in mind is that once an adoption has been finalized, adoptive children and biological children are no different under the eyes of the law. Whether adopted or born into the family, all children are equal members of the family system.</p>
<h3>Open Adoption:</h3>
<p>There are actually two definitions for this term. When used in the United States, open adoption most commonly means an adoption in which the birth parent(s) is(are) involved in the process and remain so even after finalization. Typically, birth parents will choose to meet prospective adoptive parents before choosing to place their child in their care. This is usually done before the baby is born. The two sets of parents can agree that the birth parents will be allowed to remain involved in the child&#8217;s life, albeit in a non-parental role. Phone calls, letters, and regular visits are not uncommon in this sort of arrangement.</p>
<p>This term can also be used to indicate a type of adoption in which the adopted person has access to their own files and records. In the United Kingdom, for example, adopted children are granted this right upon turning 18.</p>
<h3>Semi-Open Adoption:</h3>
<p>A modification of the above arrangement, semi-open adoption involves significantly less involvement in the child&#8217;s life on the part of the birth parent(s). Adoptive parents and birth parents may still meet face to face prior to undertaking the adoption process, but typically there is no physical contact beyond that. The birth parents and the child may occasionally exchange photos or letters.</p>
<h3>Closed Adoption:</h3>
<p>In this type of adoption, minimal information is shared between birth and adoptive parents prior to placement. After the finalization of the adoption, adoptive and birth parents share no information. This type of adoption can take place in cases of child abuse or neglect, or when the birth parent(s) has(have) specified that they want no contact.</p>
<h3>Foster Care Adoption:</h3>
<p>This occurs when a foster child is adopted by their foster parents. Children may be placed in foster care for one of a number of reasons, one being abuse or neglect. They may remain foster children&#8211; meaning that the foster parents are guardians, but the children are not legally their own&#8211; or the foster parents sometimes choose to adopt them. Upon finalization of the adoption, the foster child officially becomes the child of their former foster parents.</p>
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		<title>Resources for Adopted Individuals</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 15:58:06 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adoption is a life-changing event for all involved, from the birth parents who make the brave decision to give their child up, to the adoptive parents who make an equally brave decision to welcome that child as their own. Yet one group which may go overlooked is that of the adopted children themselves. There are a number of issues that can arise for these individuals.</p>
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<p>If the child was adopted at a very young age, they may not even know they were adopted until adolescence, or even later. A possible conflict in identity may result, as these children have spent so much time in an identity which they may perceive to no longer be valid. Children who were adopted late enough in life to be cognizant of the process can have their own issues, as well, perhaps wondering why their original parents didnÃ‚Â´t keep them, or having trouble accepting their adoptive parents as legitimate. Children adopted by parents of an ethnic, racial, or cultural group other than their own often face a unique conflict as they try to reconcile the two identities internally.</p>
<p>It has been shown that adult former adoptees suffer from a number of problems, including struggles with identity, low self-esteem, and feelings of abandonment. These underlying troubles may lead to further struggles like alcohol abuse, marital difficulties and depression. Many adult adoptees will also seek out information about their own genetic histories, spending years trying to find siblings, parents or any other biological relatives. The upshot of these issues is that they are nothing new. They are so frequently encountered that they are known about and there exist mechanisms to help these individuals cope.</p>
<p>One option is to find a support group. The mere act of connecting with a group of people who have had similar life experiences and dealt with similar issues can be beneficial in itself. The clichÃƒÂ© is that misery loves company, and in this case it&#8217;s true. Seeing that others are going through some of the same things is reassuring. Support groups provide a forum in which former adoptees can discuss their experiences and confess their troubles. National support groups such as ALMA and the American Adoption Congress are good resources for adult adoptees.</p>
<p>Individual counseling is another option. Some counselors and therapists specialize in adult adoptees. Some of these professionals are adult adoptees themselves. The therapeutic intervention can treat a number of aspects of the adult adoptee experience. Therapy can help the individual in their interpersonal relationships, help them heal from lingering feelings of abandonment, and even assist in the search for birth parents (which can be a cathartic solution in itself). This kind of counseling can be costly, but some counselors offer group sessions, which may combine some of the advantages of support groups and individual counseling.</p>
<p>For the adopted individual, adoption is a lifelong experience. It does not end when the adoption is finalized, nor at the onset of adulthood. It is something that adoptees carry around throughout their lives, and as such it must be addressed and coped with. Fortunately, there are resources for these individuals. For those struggling with issues like those described above, a good starting point is <a href="http://www.adopting.org" title="http://www.adopting.org" target="_blank">www.adopting.org</a>, a website with resources geared to all people touched by adoption, including adult adoptees.</p>
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		<title>Adoption Announcements</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The adoption is final and you want to get the word out.  You want to show and tell every body about your new family member.  What&#8217;s a better way than sending out adoption announcements?  I know your thinking, what is an adoption announcement?  Well I will tell you.  An adoption [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The adoption is final and you want to get the word out.  You want to show and tell every body about your new family member.  What&#8217;s a better way than sending out adoption announcements?  I know your thinking, what is an adoption announcement?  Well I will tell you.  An adoption announcement is a lit like a birth announcement, but instead of saying something like, we are welcoming the birth of our child, it will say something like, we are welcoming into our family.</p>
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<p>There are all sorts of different kinds of adoption announcements.  Some people make their own announcements.  They say it is easier to make announcements than it is to find adoption announcements for older children.  Some people buy adoption announcements that contain pictures or have ribbon and bows.  Some have both.  Adoption announcements come in different languages.  They can include the name of the child, the child&#8217;s birth date, where the child is from, such as what country, the day you met the child and the date the adoption was final.  They usually have the adoptive parent&#8217;s names on it and any siblings.  The adoption announcement can also have the names of any pets.  Most adoption announcements include pictures.  Prices range from two dollars a piece to five dollars a piece, plus shipping and handling.</p>
<p>The best thing about adoption announcements is that you can make it your own.  You can personalize every aspect.  There are no two announcements a like, just like there are no two children exactly a like.  Every thing is new and exciting when there is a child in the home, whether the child is biological or adopted, that child will always hold a piece of your heart.  Everyday will bring something new and exciting.  Not only will you be teaching your child but your child will be teaching you.  This is what makes parenting so exciting and also so terrifying.</p>
<p>There is nothing more wonderful than having a child to call your own.  Adopting is a wonderful way to have this.  Adoptive parents have so much fun exploring and make things just right for their new children.  So preparing the adoption announcements should be just that, fun and exciting.</p>
<p>First you should take into consideration the people that you will send the adoption announcements too.  That will give you an idea of what all should be contained in the announcement.  Weather they should be humorous or sentimental.  After you have your words chosen your layout picked and what style you want its time to shop.  Depending on how many you are sending bulk mail may be appropriate.  This is a good way to save money on postage.</p>
<p>Many people also have welcome home parties after the adopted member of the family is settled in, while you are working on your announcements can be a good time to consider such a party where as you won&#8217;t have to mail out separate invitations.</p>
<p>All in all adoption announcements are a fun and traditional way to inform people of your welcoming a new member to your family.</p>
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		<title>Guatemalan Adoption</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guatemalan courts have asked for changes in adoption proceedings in the past and this has caused some set backs.  Even with these set backs this program is still attracting American adoptive families.  In Guatemala you can find children at extremely young ages.  Americans adopted roughly 3,783 children from Guatemala in 2005.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guatemalan courts have asked for changes in adoption proceedings in the past and this has caused some set backs.  Even with these set backs this program is still attracting American adoptive families.  In Guatemala you can find children at extremely young ages.  Americans adopted roughly 3,783 children from Guatemala in 2005.  With Guatemalan adoption there is no travel required.  They also accept single parents.  Before adoptions are approved a DNA test is required by the United States.  This is done to prove the mother-child connection.  Six months of supervision is also required after adopting from Guatemala.</p>
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<p>Guatemala&#8217;s population is made up of Mayan Indians and Latino (mostly Hispanic and Mayan Indian).  Guatemala started doing international adoption at the end of their thirty-six year Civil War.  The war ended officially in 1996.  The reason the United States requires DNA testing of the child and the birth mother is because there have been rumors of babies being stolen and sold or place for adoption.</p>
<p>Guatemala has the largest population of all the Central American countries, with roughly 14,655,189 people.  The main products coming out of Guatemala are coffee, bananas, and sugar.  Around seventy-five percent of the population of Guatemala is below the poverty line.  Guatemala lies between Mexico and El Salvador.  It also borders the North Pacific Ocean.</p>
<p>After you have finished your application, home study and compiled your dossier and it has all been accepted, you will start to receive referral from your agency.  Once you have chosen the right referral for you, the adoption agency will contact Guatemala and let them know which child you have chosen.  A Guatemalan attorney will then collect the consent forms, medical records, and birth certificate.  The United States will do the necessary DNA testing.  Once all this is done the attorney goes to court for you to finish the adoption.  He then gets the Childs passport ready.  When all the paperwork and court hearings are finished you have the choice to either go to Guatemala and pick up your child or have the child escorted to you.</p>
<p>In Guatemalan adoptions you can be married, or single, meaning single men and single women can adopt.  The only real requirement is that the adopting parents be under the age of fifty years old.  Referrals generally start around three to six months after your paperwork has been received.  Once you accept a referral it takes about eight months for the adoption to become final.</p>
<p>An international protocol was endorsed by law makers, because the United States said they will stop allowing American parents adopt Guatemalan children.  Guatemala has been told that it needs to make provisions of its secret systems.  These systems have been criticized due to high adoptive cost and for payment being made to the women and young girls placing their children up for adoption.  Guatemalan adoption is still probably on the better choices for single adoptive parents due to the flexibility of their current protocol.  Also with private lawyer&#8217;s currently still in charge of a great deal of the process, this is also a good alternative for people currently turned down for domestic adoption.</p>
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